My fondest memories....when MY Mom and I would help Ma Incillo during church functions, and it was "helping" cause she was a whirlwind in the kitchen. I admired her cool head and wonderful patience while dealing with the always enormous task of preparing enough food, and there was always ENOUGH GREAT food, for the whole church. I don't have to tell U that your Mom was a pip, countless times she would come out with a hum-dinger that would cause uncontrollable laughter and then hit ya with that Ma Incillo smile. On the other hand she had no problem "setting someone straight" if need be.. but always with her own special mixture of love and compassion. Ma Incillo never did anything "good enough", if it was worth doing it was done to the best of her ability. Her strength, integrity, and faith were always an inspiration to me! Our Moms being church function cooking pals always ensured there were plenty of set-up and break-down workers, like 8 of us "old enough" kids :)! I was blessed to have known Ma Incillo and I KNOW my Mom felt the same. Though times may have caused a drifting apart upon this earth, I'm know our Moms are together in HIS loving embrace "catching up" while looking down on the families they love and cherish so much!